First comeback to kindergarten: help her get on track
The problem
If he attended the nursery or the day-care center, he already knows community life. Otherwise, it will be a little more difficult to adapt at the beginning, especially if he does not have a brother or sister already at school.
Who disturbs it?
Your child. He will share the lives of twenty other children, in an unknown space, with a mistress who will take care of the whole class: an upheaval that worries her a little.
You. You would like everything to go smoothly for him. You feel that he apprehends this leap into the unknown.
CASE BY CASE SOLUTION
He is worried
Is he struggling to leave you? Does it react to your own concern? Perhaps the mere idea of going into a space he does not know, with children and adults he has never seen, disturbs him.
What has to be done
Reassure him by the action and by the word. Describe the school to him and show him around. If this is not possible, ask for an appointment with the director and go with your child. Help him to imagine his days: his various activities, his mistress, the Atsem, his class ...
What to tell him. "You see, you'll go to this school. You'll play with lots of other kids, you'll make drawings. "
He is impatient
If he has brothers and sisters who are already in school, your child is keen to go there. But also if he is bored at the nursery, which is common for 3 year olds. You can help him manage the wait.
What has to be done
Give him a taste of some of the activities offered at the school. You can ask him, for example, to cut photos in magazines, to color pre-printed figurines ... His brothers and sisters, if he has some, can also initiate him by the game of coloring and graphics ...
What to tell him. "Here you go soon in class. We will buy together a small bag for your snack and coloring books. "
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He does not talk about it
This is the most embarrassing case. It is important to make him speak to know what his silence hides about such an important event for him.
What has to be done
If there is no welcome day organized by the school, make an appointment with the director and take your child to visit the premises. It is necessary that he visualizes the place where he will spend his days. He can then talk better. If it's possible, go with his dad. They will exchange their impressions.
What to tell him. "Do you want to go to school? Tell me what you think about it ? Do you want to know how your day will be? "
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